Today would have been Mom’s 57th birthday. Time continues to move forward without her; it used to feel like it wouldn’t. But these days come up and I feel compelled to write something.

The other day I was wandering around the aisles of Barnes and Noble, seeing what was new on the shelves, looking for something new to read. When I passed by the Mystery Genre Aisle, the distinctive cover of a new Elizabeth Peters’s Amelia Peabody Mystery caught my eye. Mom loved this series of novels, and it seemed like for many years my siblings, Dad, and I would attempt to be the person who bought the copy of the newest Peabody first so we could give it to Mom for her birthday or Christmas. Not that we didn’t all read the series. When certain new books came to my house you had to be fast before they sneaked off into another’s hands.

The series is set in the late 19th and early 20th centuries during the major archaeological discoveries in Egypt. Mom was fascinated by ancient Egyptian art. During her couple of years at the University of Houston, she had studied art history. I can recall going through one of her old art textbooks with her and her explaining what made Egyptian art unique and interesting.

I had thought that the series though had pretty much finished as the last one was set during the finding of King Tut’s tomb. It actually came out in March 2006, just a few months before Mom died, but I believe my parents had listened to it in the car when they came out for Grandma’s funeral. I remember them talking about it being a good wrap up for the series and how they didn’t think that there’d be any more of the novels.

But then there on the shelves was a new Amelia Peabody mystery. Despite the fact I knew I would buy it, read it and enjoy it, my first thought was how odd it was to not be buying it for my mom’s birthday, because I knew how much she would like it. It’s just one more change in the world that she’d missed. It strikes me that it’s the things she keeps missing that I find hardest to deal with – things like her first grandson to a new novel she would love to read.

But at least when I read a new Amelia Peabody mystery or an old one again, I’ll always remember Mom’s fondness for them and that I read them because she told me they were fun reads first.

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I watched the series finale of Lost about a week ago. Let me just say the finale has sort of preyed on my mind. A lot of folks seems to be upset at the lack of answered questions or disappointed at the oddity of what the show turned out to be. After thinking about it for awhile, it suddenly hit me that this show is something of a meditation on life and death and after life. I’ve decided to go back to rewatch the show from Season 1. I’ve just finished watching Season 1. I was surprised how the themes of letting go and the strength of connections between people are there from the start. To me the finale suggests that there are lot of things in life we place tremendous importance on (pushing buttons, etc) yet these things aren’t really that important when compared to creating connections and relationships with our fellow humans. And that is what I feel like the sideways universe highlights.

Season 1 begins as a way to show the forging of the connections between all these characters. But also I think the series finale firmly establishes that in many ways Lost is Jack’s story. So going back and rewatching the season from that perspective, I think begins to change the way I see the show. I also think watching the show again from that first season and seeing how cliffhanger episodes lead into the next episode aren’t nearly as frustrating as I remember when it took a week or more between episodes. I’ve been kind of surprised at how quickly things move when episodes are watched back to back.

I’ll revisit this again after rewatching Season 2.

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